Who Gets to Claim a Child as a Dependent?
Generally, in order for someone to claim a child as a dependent, he or she must provide at least 50% of the child's support during the tax year. For couples who are still married and living together, claiming kids as dependents is usually a slam-dunk.
Things get complicated, however, when parents divorce or separate. Now, only one of you can claim the dependent exemption. (The IRS will come down hard if both of you try to claim it; they cross-reference dependents' Social Security numbers to make sure taxpayers aren't doing this.)
Special Rule for Parents Living Apart
If the parents lived apart at all times during the last six months of the calendar year, or if they have a written divorce decree, maintenance agreement, or separation agreement, there is a special rule that applies.
In this case, if the child received more than half of his or her total support for the year from one or both parents and was in the custody of one or both parents during the year, the IRS rules assume that the custodial parent (defined as the parent who has custody of the child for the greater part of the year) should get the exemption for the dependent. However, the parties may change this presumption and allocate the exemption to the noncustodial parent if either of the following are true:
- The divorce decree or separation agreement contains a provision in which the custodial parent waives the right to claim the dependent exemption. (The rules are slightly different if the agreement was entered into prior to 1985; the noncustodial parent must also provide at least $600 of support to receive the exemption.)
- The custodial parent signs a declaration (using IRS Form 8332) relinquishing his or her right to claim the dependent exemption, and the noncustodial parent attaches this declaration to his or her tax return. Using this form, the custodial parent can relinquish the exemption for one year, a number of years, or forever, depending on what the parties agree to.
- If you relinquish the exemption, you are also relinquishing eligibility for the child tax credit.
If the custodial parent refuses to sign Form 8332, the noncustodial parent can attach part of the divorce decree or separation agreement (the cover page, the page that discusses the exemption and the signature page) to his or her tax return to prove that he or she is entitled to the exemption. However, the IRS will accept this only if the decree or agreement doesn't require that certain conditions be met before the noncustodial parent can claim the exemption. If there are conditions, the noncustodial parent must use Form 8332 or not get the exemption.
Rule for Unmarried Parents or Those Still Living Together
If the parents are not married, did not live apart during the last six months of the calendar year, or do not have a written document, the test for determining which parent can claim the child as a dependent is that the parent who provides more than 50% of a child's support during the tax year can claim the child as a dependent.
Rules for Parents Who Contribute Equal Amounts of Support
If neither parent provides more than half of the child's support for the year, things get even more complicated. For more information on how to handle this situation, see IRS Publication 504, Divorced or Separated Individuals, which you can download for free from www.irs.gov.
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I have recently been notified by my son's father that he is applying for social security. My son has Down Syndrome and his father wants to include benefits that "may" be due my son under his father's SSI, in leiu as part of his ordered child support. It would effect the total "out of pocket" income from his father. He states it is a win-win situation. He also goes on to state that if I inquired about my son receiving a higher child support amount, that under new Guidelines the max amount maxs at $20,000 cap per anum. Therefore, I could not receive any higher amount even though his income is far beyond this amount. When our original agreement was entered, I was working and my income was calculated into the current amount due us. However, I am currently on SSi disability myself. I am inquiring as whether it is true that the courts do not award child support beyond a "so called max benefit" or if we will need to accept his proposal. We currently receive $1,800/mo and his father wants to reduce it to $1,200/mo. Thank you very much, Pamela
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If a divorce decree states that there are no "conditions" as to whether the non-custodial parent can claim the child as a dependent, but the non-custodial parent is in "arrears", can they still claim the child as a dependent in the year the decree allows them to?
(Meaning, I am to claim my son on all odd years, and my ex-wife on even years. There are no conditions that apply to this arrangement. However, I am in arrears. Do I still get to claim him for my year?) (The amount I would get back in taxes would be then applied to my arrears, and I would be CAUGHT UP! Which would be GREAT!)
Thank you for your help